How to Survive Father's Day as a Divorced Dad
Posted on Jun 22, 2018 4:05pm PDT
Father’s Day is meant to celebrate the relationship between a father
and his children. Unfortunately, this celebration becomes understandably
difficult following a divorce. Life after divorce is tough for dads, especially
if they live apart from their children as noncustodial parents. However,
it’s important to remember that even if you change how Father’s
Day is celebrated, it doesn’t mean the point of Father’s Day
is lost. Whatever time you have, use this day to remind your children
how much you love them no matter the circumstances. This is a new experience
for them as well.
Plan Ahead
Plan your Father’s Day in advance and in consideration of how much
available time you’ll have to spend with your kids. The goal is
to maximize your quality time together. Each parent-child relationship
is unique and has its own dynamic. Think about what you enjoy doing with
your kids. This is a chance to enjoy old pastimes or even build new Father’s
Day traditions. If you can, take a lot of pictures to commemorate your
day together.
Not Your Weekend?
Unfortunately, if you’re a noncustodial parent, it’s possible
for Father’s Day to land on a day that isn’t your scheduled
time. This doesn’t mean you can’t celebrate Father’s
Day. You always have the option of switching weekends with your ex, postponing
the event, or even celebrating early. The meaning of the day doesn’t
have to be lost just because it changed weekends. If possible, you can
still call or skype your kids on the actual day. If you make alternative
plans, you can spend Father’s Day indulging yourself. Do something
fun to make the day enjoyable, like traveling or visiting friends. Maybe
spend the day with your own father!
Legal Assistance
At Arnold Law Group, APC, we have over 30 years of shared experience in
divorce law. We know how difficult it is for parents and children during
and after the divorce process. If you are planning to file for divorce
or have questions about how to protect your children from the impact of divorce,
contact our divorce lawyers at 559-900-1263. We can
teach you and your children how to cope with the complications.