Why Do Older Couples Get Divorced?
Posted on Aug 31, 2023 5:20am PDT
Divorce is not uncommon, and it can happen to anyone at any age. But have
you ever wondered why older couples in California decide to separate after
many years of being together? In this blog post, we'll take a closer
look at the reasons why older couples get divorced and reveal what could
be behind the decision.
Common Reasons Older Couples Divorce
When couples over 50 years old get divorced, it is known as
gray divorce.
The following are common causes of gray divorce:
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Retirement: Retirement can either strengthen a marriage or cause difficulties. When
couples retire, they share more time together, and this might lead to
arguments because they've been used to living separate lives for many
years. Moreover, retirement brings change—the loss of a daily routine,
job, social circle, and sometimes even a sense of identity. One spouse
may feel that their partner is not doing enough around the home or feels
left behind if his or her spouse is involved in other activities.
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Empty nest syndrome: When children have left home to pursue their own lives, spouses may realize
that they have little in common. They may feel lost, bored with their
partners, and lonely. This situation, called empty nest syndrome, is among
the leading divorce triggers. Couples who have spent many years raising
a family sometimes neglect to focus on their relationship. When the nest
is empty, they realize that they can no longer see a future together.
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Financial issues: Money can strain a marriage even in the best of times, but it can become
a more significant problem in retirement. Health issues, reduced income,
and debt can all take a toll on a marriage. Financial issues can often
lead to resentment, and one spouse may eventually see hiding money, arguing
about finances, or overspending as unforgivable.
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Infidelity: In some cases, infidelity is the reason behind divorces among elderly
couples. Men and women may feel that they have missed out on life experiences
and want to try something new before it is too late. This can result in
one or both spouses feeling the urge to explore other options.
Schedule a Confidential Consultation with Our Experienced Divorce Attorneys Today!
Arnold Law Group, APC has a wealth of experience assisting older couples with various issues
related to gray divorce. We have witnessed the overwhelming impact that
the divorce process can have on elderly couples. Therefore, our unwavering
commitment is to act in the best interests of our clients, prioritizing
their needs above all else. Rest assured, at Arnold Law Group, APC, you
will find dedicated and compassionate family law attorneys who are here
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